with someone who metaphorically speaking gags you. In as much as when you try and state displeasure at something which has hurt you they either walk away, hang up or cut you off for a few days or months completely then act like there was no proble, or try to say you are behaving badly etc./ Left in a state of complete frustration at not being allowed to crit anything that is ever said or done….relationship has to be on there terms or not atall.