I joined a computing course and had an placement with a marketing company 4 real estate. Before, that i was bored, misguided and depressed but my relationship with my BF was strong, most of the time i would have louged about till he came back from work, we dont live together but i do spend alot of time at his mums place.

But now since I actually have a life he’s got very strange with me. I spend alot of time on the course with 4 men, theres no girls in the course and i get on well with them. My placemtn also involved a little bit of travel but his attitute all chaged just in the last 2 weeks.

He went in a bad mood with me because I got offered another placement , expenses paid, about 300 miles away. He said he would move if he found a job but i said to him not to as it was only a 3 month placement and i would come up every month, that i didnt plan to stay there and we were offerd a good price on an appartment in our home town.

Then in KFC of all places i was checking my mobile and Mattew, one of the course directors, txt me to ask how I was and basically good job on getting the placement. My BF and I had an argument first about me moving and then about having guys texting me. I told him not to be ridiculous but I actually declined the placement as I saw his point about being away for that amount of time.

Then this week he suddenly starts ignoring me which isnt like him then he asks me to meet me in a cafe. Thinking it was to talk, he never siad much until he hit out with he was moving to Canada to live with his best friend who moved there. He had already been saving. I got very upset. He orginally asked me to move with him but now he hasnt said anything and then hit out sarcastically "its only for a year" .

He was almost crying by the end of the meal in a cafe , dont know what going on in his head.